eyes I went to read your sitch and only got to 10/24 what happened? I am curious to know where you are...I see a lot of similarities in my sitch and your except for the OM... I don't want to get D...D(11) asked me last night if I wanted to get back with W and I was honest and said that sometimes that I do and sometimes I don't but then I thought about and told her I love W very much and would like for her to come back...but I told her we would make it through this.....
W thinks that if we rush through this it will make it easier on d(11) and d(6)..she thinks this is what is hurting them most not knowing what is going to happen.