I meant to also add that if your W is making the CHOICE to WANT to be married to you, that it is SO much better than had she come back for any other reason, ie, the kids, finances, even her vows. If she WANTS to be married to you after all of this... well, that is huge.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce