OMG. That is very scary. There had been someone else I was back and forth with before H came home. He's moved on, though. I think sometimes that is what makes it difficult. How much of my life am I willing to forgo because of this situation? And why do I continue to make this choice?
But it's all still significant. I mean what am I going to do? Continue to pass up on my life because of my H? Why have I been so unable to break the bond with him? I'm well aware of what I'm being told that I enable my H. But, I can't help to feel like he enables me in some twisted way too. Like 2 drug addicts (only I don't do drugs and have no drinking problem), but that is what it is like. I'm not sure I know what healthy is anymore.
I don't know, CV, it sounds more and more to me that your H is a bit more reliant on your opinion than you know. And somehow I think that is why he lies. Please, please, please know I'm not making excuses for him. But you obviously want this figured out so I'm throwing darts. So if he lies in order to avoid criticism, how does one resolve that? I have no earthly clue. He's not psychotic. So there's a reason. What are your thoughts on that?
