Man! He's snuck downstairs 3 times and 2 times I went down there and he's pretending to do something but I know he's contacting ow. Can't confront because he just Denies everything.
I'm about ready to throw on the towel. He's deceived me before and denied it til I got proof and I believe I'm being deceived again but he's gotten better at hiding it. His behavior gives him away.
How about checking the phone records? Get the proof, then confront. Tell him you are not willing to share your H with other women and if he wants them so badly, they can have him. Do something different.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
I have checked phone records which showed nothing. He is probably using LinkedIn or something hidden. I found put about Skype when I snooped and found the password but he knows and now is very careful. I know he has another email. When I say something he says I have to stop this. That he is doing nothing. I'm sure he is. Took his phone downstairs again this morning.
Then confront him and talk to him about it. Tell him that you know the truth and are giving him the benefit of the doubt but that you will no longer be played. You are his W and are to be respected and not lied to.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
If you do find out that he's talking to her, you better be ready to carry out your threat. If not, he'll think you are bluffing and will never believe another threat you make.
I'm really sorry he's behaving this way, but he's in mlc land and they do tend to lie quite a bit.
Please take care of yourself and your family.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Thanks snodderly. I am prepared to follow through. This is something I cannot live with. He is cold and distant again. I am being nice but not hugging or making any overtures. I suppose he'll say I have given up if I keep my distance and I guess I am trying to protect myself from his up and down crap.
