"Way to go, great recovery and communication on your part ! When they no longer can control us, they often seek recovery even more when they can't push our buttons. They don't like it when they can't control us or use the old regular reaction button pushing that use to get us to give them their way !"
"Don't think of arrogance as a flaw if you see this in yourself, these are our ineffective behaviors. You may not have this at all, it is just her perception or way to control. Step 4 helps us keep the good and stop using the behaviors that don't serve us as adults."
