The other trap I keep getting myself into is pursuing her when she starts being nice to me. We started having more physical touch with each other. She would trip me. Put her arm on me. She even let me rub her back (she has something going on still here)
Then of course I backslide and try to take it to the next level.
I'm getting caught in that pursue/distance trap or lack of detachment when she makes positives slides.
How do you wait for her to make the move when she is giving signs of it. So frustrating I slip up. I SEE it and recognize it.
