MrBond, I am as of today, opening my own back account, getting my own cell phone, exposing my W EA/PA and not leaving my house. This will be a huge test for me because I'm trying to shield and protect my daughter as much as possible. But as I was teaching a fire science class yesterday. I finally heard my own words.

In the fire service we teach you risk a lot to gain a lot, you risk little to gain little. This being the thought process we use for attacking a house fire. We risk our own life if there is a life to save. We risk a lot less if it's only property..... In this case I am risking a lot in hope to get a huge return. So far I have risked little for something that is so valuable, my marriage.