Thought I would change the subject line to "we" instead of "I" because we are all in the same boat together.
H didn't come home last night. He showed up at S's soccer game 20 minutes late and afterward left for OW's place. I was fine with that. Kids and I had a good evening. H was home at 6:15 am and started making breakfast for the kids and got them ready for school. Turns out he didn't need to make breakfast for them, because they got their breakfast ready for the morning the night before so they just needed to warm up their plates. : )
I am staying back to avoid the spew and let H parent. That doesn't mean I am ignoring my kids or not being a parent, but I will let him be "in charge" so to speak. I am documenting and observing from a distance.
Trying to think of ways to occupy my time while H takes charge of the kids. I have some books I could read and some gift cards to use and a hair appointment this weekend. Oh, and my DivorceCare class starts back up Saturday night. Looking forward to that starting up again.
Trying to keep the focus off H and his crazy ways and back to me and the kids. Any suggestions would be very helpful. Oh, and I don't have a lot of money to spend either. LOL!
Thanks everyone!
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"
