D for the purest sense of DBing ---> To better myself for me. I need to continue to Detach. I need to continue to Discover and Develop who I want to be. To continue to be the great Dad that I can be. Also, I need to play Defense in preparation for an actual D, to protect myself and kids, rather than cling to false hope.
These are some good goals! If you ever feel weak on any of them post it here before acting. I've done this the last week or so and it's amazing how quickly these boards get me back on track before I make a mistake.
I'm also glad to hear that you're feeling a little better and you were able to be strong during the talk with the kids. It's so important for you to show that so they know things will be alright for them.
Personality is who the world sees, character is who you are
