Thanks Bug. We definitely were not speaking each others LL. we read the book last year Nd it worked for a couple months as she was giving in my area but she refused to tell me what hers was. She said she was surprised at the result and did not want to tell me her LL. So maybe I spread all 5 a little thin....I don't know. Things were getting better until it was time, as per MC and me to deal with the trust. This is where it went off the rails again in the spring. The winter months last year were actually good and she admits to being in love again. 2 therapists and my GP say I am not depressed, but definitely down. Not clinically depressed though. I have anxiety and am on meds now for that...lightest dose possible. It does work.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
