So the different that she wants involves messing up kids, upheaving lives, creating so much hurt to others and herself and being outright mean rather than working together creating a climate that is different?
These are questions I was asking, and even asked W a couple months ago. Not one time has she ever given an answer that made sense or that she had even thought about her new future. All she said is she can't do it anymore and can't get the past out of her head (and in my sitch the past that she continuously mentions happened 10+ years ago). It was so tiring and depressing trying to figure out how she could do things without even talking with me about where she was that I was completely exhausted. I'm trying my hardest not to think about the why anymore and just write it off as her being crazy (probably not right wording there but hope you get the point). I'll never be able to rationalize it or see things the way she does.
Originally Posted By: labug
When a person gets to the place where they are ready to leave a marriage, it's never one thing, it's usually lots of little things over time, the anger and resentment grow and then, they're done.
You can work forever to try to explain this to yourself in a logical manner but at some point you will have to accept that it is what it is and let go.
Much better said then my ramblings
Personality is who the world sees, character is who you are
