My comment was in response to that. Maybe she didn't need more of what you were doing but something different.
Maybe you weren't speaking her LL. We all have different needs in that area. My H and I never got this concept, I loved him the way I wanted to be loved, he loved my they way he wanted.
When a person gets to the place where they are ready to leave a marriage, it's never one thing, it's usually lots of little things over time, the anger and resentment grow and then, they're done.
You can work forever to try to explain this to yourself in a logical manner but at some point you will have to accept that it is what it is and let go.
There's a book, "Depression Fallout" that might be helpful to you.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
