B the words sorry did not leave my mouth last night.
I tried to say I understand without using but statements
I did stand up for myself . When I did she moved onto next thing. I told her that her counselor had no right calling me a naracist without talking to me . She said he is basing it on what I tell him
I stick up for myself but it was always something else.
I didn't want to leave room because we were actually communicating