B the words sorry did not leave my mouth last night.

I tried to say I understand without using but statements

I did stand up for myself . When I did she moved onto next thing.
I told her that her counselor had no right calling me a naracist without talking to me . She said he is basing it on what I tell him

I stick up for myself but it was always something else.

I didn't want to leave room because we were actually communicating