When tapestries of life get tangled in the loom.

[Big Bruce]

Bonsoir everyone,
One more question : after I've had my son for myself for two hours, should I tell her how it went, what we did or what S ate?
Or should I write that in an email right after the visit? Or not say anything at all, to keep the secrecy between father and S, and make her wonder?

I'm asking because yesterday when I brought S back after my unsupervised time with him, I rang her doorbell, she opened the door, took him, barely asked if everything was ok to which I said yes, said bye and almost closed the door on my nose.

--> Maybe I've shown distance and withdrawal instead of "detachment" and that's why she responding this way?

Is this normal, beneficial or am I doing something wrong here?


As for the rest of the advice you gave me, I think I understand and am working on it (e.g. being a good dad, being a great guy without trying to show her, stop pursuing like a madman).

Thanks again and
Bonne nuit,
Bruce