Today I'm at work minding my own business and get an email from my L. She had received a fax from my W's L asking about the status of things. Evidently, my W had not put her L on hold.
I ended up calling my W asking her how I should respond to my L. We talked for a bit. My W had given us credit for getting together a couple of times and having a decent time together. However, she mentioned she really wasn't keen on the "on hold" concept. She also mentioned she did see how we could ever find our way back to each other. She was also asking my opinion.
I think I realized at this point the time was right for:
Originally Posted By: jbnati back on 12/15
We have not yet set up a time for us to get together and talk. I think I'll know when the time is right. I certainly don't want to apply any pressure.
I mentioned I wasn't sure either way. I agreed with her that the limbo is very tiring and I don't want to be just in limbo not making progress one way or the other. I did make a brief mention of Retrouvaille and invited her to check it out, because in my opinion it may help us figure which direction we needed to go with things.
She really seems to be leaning back toward a D. She did agree to get together and have a conversation about things. At least me, I'd like to get a good picture of where she is emotionally. I also feel the need to air it out a bit on where I am. Frankly, I also want to talk about what I want out of a M, what she wants, and to see if there's even a match. We are planning on meeting up after work on Thursday. She was amenable to meeting up, although she didn't entirely see it as necessary. For me, I don't see how there's much to lose.
