Detaching is so hard!!!! We split the time with the kids 3-4 days a week so no communication is almost impossible. Also i've been with her for almost 17 years so I miss being around her.

Tonight via text I offered to pick up the kids from school tommorrow and told her she was welcome to come over and have dinner and pick up the kids(her first day to have them this week). Hoping this would show I can take care of myself with out her but it might be too soon. I've kept conversations short for the last week or so and this would be be the longest all year. Did I screw up??