Oh, and yes, I guess you make a good point about his reacting to my complements. I was thinking about how he responds to my complaints. So, yes, I acknowledge that he liked that. So how do I interpret his response? Is it natural to immediately want repayment? I complemented him, so then I should give him sex? The concept is foreign to me.
I guess I just need to write that off as another difference in us. How to manage it is the question.