Bug, Yes we've had that discussion before. I can honestly say much of what I have done much up to this point has put more of what W would want, once I got her attention back on me some. Not necessarily true self discovery in the long run.
I read the article. Nice one. Good one. I liked it very much.
Find you and all the other stuff will fall into place. This clearly has to be the focus of my next thread, next steps of my journey.