Actions speak louder than words. If she is confused she may not be able to stick to one explanation and she may say things that are biased or exaggerated or just plain untrue.

I'm not the one who left and still how I explain what happened varies a lot from week to week and mood to mood.

Pay less attention to the things she says/said. Deal with the facts of her present actions.

Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.