That’s not what she says or has said, but plausible. She has said so many things that she recants and/or later contradicts. So the different that she wants involves messing up kids, upheaving lives, creating so much hurt to others and herself and being outright mean rather than working together creating a climate that is different? Or are you saying maybe she needed someone different, not needed different? Same thing right? She was emphatic that we would make it, emphatic that she wanted this M, emphatic that she loved me and wanted our family…..weeks later she dropped out. Ya, it’s been quite a head f*** on the end of a yo-yo. Yep, that is the victim talk right there. Caught myself.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
