Hi Nero, I may not know where I'm headed but I know I will not let my H take me down. I have spent these days reading up on and putting some things in place for my safety.
The biggest debt we have is this house, and as far as credit cards I have untangled that mess today. H opened a card today in his name only absorbing the little bit of debt we have from his tools onto his own credit.
With grown kids, no other property, and an agreement on the cars, I think I can get pretty untangled from him by spring. I have not decided to file yet but incase he springs it on me the only response I want to have is, when!
Health insurance is my biggest worry, but I guess getting a job would help with that, huh! I have been reading alot about D and how to be prepared and things to make sure my L would have in place. It's getting less scary everyday.
Honestly, I would go out tom. if I was asked. I am so disgusted by h that I would love some confirmation that there are some good men out there. We're not defeated, defeat would imply we gave them the power to take us down, hell no!
Do you miss your H when he's gone, is it getting easier to not have him there knowing that it's not ''him'' anyways? I don't miss anything because nothing comes home, well maybe an ashtray oh and a grouch, no I don't miss mine.
I hope your feeling stronger from your cold. It's not a good feeling doing it alone but come spring you will blossom and be stronger than last, because there is know where for us to go but back up. We are not MLC, yea, that's all them. $ucks to be them!!!
Good to be you....
The past can't be ahead of you in the future. You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction. What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!
