Well, she collects box tops for their school. She gives them generous amounts of cash on holidays. She comes to sporting events. The kids like her.

I don't know how much more time she has, and I don't want to stand in the way of the boys knowing her as well as they can. Or I should say I don't want to not help the boys know her as well as they can.

I just don't want to drive with H to see her this weekend. Either H goes, or I go, and if I don't go I'll be judged for pouting.

Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.