And for him to say he deserves them 50% of the time enrages me.
Believe me when I tell you this, it could be much worse - he could want nothing to do with them. Imagine how the kids would feel then if daddy abandoned them. Don't let your kids become pawns or take out your anger through them. It's not fair. It's maddening. It s*cks. But think it through about what is best for your kids long-term. You want the best for them.
I know how you feel. I've been there. But step back and think about what you want for your kids given the situation as it is. You'll be glad you did.
Peace, AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
I just feel that once he gets the 50% he will be gone and they will be with OW. That's not good for them. That's my gut. It's not that I do not want them with their dad. He's never been around unless he "feels" like being a dad. It's gotten worse over the last two years.
And yes it's best he wants them rather than abandons them. But I don't think it's good for them to be shuffled back and forth.
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"
