I know that this isn't easy for any of us here, and I will not even pretend to say I know what you are going through. I have only recieved some resentment and bitterness, not the venom that you have. So I would like to offer another outsiders perspective.
The things he has said are so deranged to me, it is almost comical. When I read what he said, my mouth opens and all I can think off is "what," and "wow." I know that there is nothing funny about what any of us are going through. I know you think he is happy with OW, but IMHO she is nothing but a band-aid. Ask yourself how could anyone have a happy loving relationship with someone that coud say those things about his family and pregnant wife? We all have a long way to go, and if I have learned one thing, it is that I will do my best to never get complacent in my life again.
Your H also has a long way to go, continue to be the example of a better way to be. Hopefully he will see that at some point and make the decision to be a better person. I wish you all the best, and if I could offer a little pick me up, and I don't think I am alone in this view, pregnant=beautiful. Add to that a pregnant woman showing the strength a courage you have, and you have a recipe for a amazing woman. My hat is off to you.
Me 37/W 32 S 5 D 4 ILYBNILWY 5/12 Sep 8/12 Starting to find myself 11/12 on
