I don't know what that means. Will she pick up the phone and try to communicate with her grandkids? No.

Would she like to have a good relationship with them? Yes.

Do she see that as her responsibility? No.

Because I tend to fill a void, and because I think it is best for the kids, I am trying.

Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.