FloydMan, Not sure if you have read any of my other posts or not. But I feel like I have bent and bent and bent to do what my W asks or says. I never used to be like that. When this A came out she said and you better not go to my or your family about it. I have not intentions on telling my family. Main reason is they aren't close at all. I want to tell her older sister because they are very close, and I think this may pop this delusional fantasy bubble she has been in for months. She has hid this from her family and work mates. So everyone thinks everything is all hunky dory. So my intentions aren't for revenge or self vindication, but to by actions show my W that I am willing to fight for her, and not just roll over
