LOL! There was no shortage of insightfulness on my thread. Still fighting with some of those people today... hahahahaha
So you sound pretty much resigned that you did all you could do (and I'm not challenging it just making sure I understand). So comes the "grief." Is that correct?
You said, "trying to figure out how to create a healthy M." Does that mean you still have hope?
I'm able to put my finger on the number 1 problem we have right now. Obviously, it takes take a brain surgeon to figure it out, just took me a long time. What would you say is your number 1 issue?
How does one chase me? I guess I hadn't considered that. What an awesome question. I'm not sure. I guess one that is willing to ask more questions and who is not happy in the shallowness. One who is willing to challenge me. I can be a bit scary (believe it or not) and quite unreasonable. I'm especially troublesome when someone hits a chord with me.
Don't worry about qualifying your questions CV. I'm pretty much on my knees now so I'm not sure I can be insulted. I am in therapy and did one al anon session. Incidentally, might be helpful to say that my father is a recovered alcoholic. My stepfather who I lived with most of my life until 16 was an alcoholic. While it all sounds a bit cliche, my H is a different kind of alcoholic as he is a functional one unlike my father and stepfather. For a long time I confused him with being a party guy.
