I posted this on LoisB's thread earlier today:

"The op provides the following to mlcers: flattery, attention, easy sex, admiration without accomplishment, shallow attachment, infatuation, fantasy, and centrality.

Real love is a lot of work and they don't want to work on anything during the crisis. They want fun and be able to do whatever they want when they want and that's why the op is so very easy for them because true love is not a part of the scenario. As I have mentioned before, they are roommates and f@ck buddies only."


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.