Adinva: I don't usually put myself down like that, and it was partly tongue in cheek...but...I just spent several days in despair over completely imagined and mind read (incorrectly) problems. Context definitely needed.
Anyway, it's good to start a new thread on a positive note.
I don't feel qualified yet to give advice here, but one thing I will say: that rule : Don't believe anything WAS says and half of what they do, I believe might have a corollary: Don't believe your own thoughts either.
At least it's true for me.
Me 46 W 43 S 21 D 18 S 17 M 22 yrs Discovered OM 9/10/12 W moved to sister's 9/15/12 W moved to OM 9/27/12 Tried to DB until 7/13 W filed 10/7/13. Did not serve. I counter filed 12/2/13.