"She also said that she knew she wasn't treating me how I should be treated, or loving me the way she should. She said she didn't really feel like making me happy, or rushing home to see me, all those things she used to feel. She said she was "tolerant" of me mostly."

Wow this is almost word for word I got in May.

I feel for you pal. It does feel like a slap in the face. Very patronizing.

Keep DBing and being who you are. People remind me to be consistent. It is true, she does not trust the changes and that will be her wrong assumption.


M17 yrs.
me49
xW47
d15
d11

BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out)
Therapy 9 months (tried 2)
BD2- May/12(sep)
Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50
Sold home - Aug/13
Court #2 - Dec/13
Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again
We settled.