It's kind of strange, but I feel better about him going after multiple women. The thought of him being in a relationship/couple with OW was hard to get out of my mind, but him not having any commitment to anyone makes it easier, plus that he seems to be more of a fantasy level try to avoid any kind of real attachment or commitment or relationship. It's just about wanting all these women to want him. I wonder if a relationship is just way beyond his capabilities to function and that's why the OW was cut off.

I totally see your point now. It's not about sex as much as conquest/feeding his ego and there wouldn't be any of that if he went for me. This too is strangely better in my mind as well. It seems like if he gets rejected, one of them tells him no atm, he cuts them off.


M38,H39
M:16Y
BD:8/12
OWDB:11/12
S:11/12-5/13
"Temp" home:6/13
OW dropped:9/13
"I love you":12/13
H ring on:2/14
Depression back:5/15
"I'm done:" 7/15
H moved out: 3/16
H moved back: 12/16
Working on us: 3/17