Ohhhh...a light bulb just went off. He claimed in court that I was sneaking into his room and going through his things. I bet THAT is what the camcorder is for to catch me in the act. I gave up the snooping thing long ago. I have all the evidence I need. Besides I don't need to snoop. H leaves stuff out in the open half the time.
as well. It wouldn't surprise me if he leaves something out as "bait" as well to try and catch you at something sneaky and confirm his suspicions about your nefarious activities. And cape. And shiny socks.
I doubt the rest of the ideas. I think he is very consumed by the outcome of the recent events and not getting his way. The sex tapes and such? I'm guessing he is so consumed by his anger and the pressure of living with a monster like you (sic) that he's consumed about getting supporting "evidence".
That was my first thought. I've heard of others that have done that too. Too much TV I think.
I suggest just being you, not snooping (what would be the point) and being calm, cool, poised, and gracious. And pretty.
AJ
LOL! AJM you are so wise. : )
Yes, I am sure the camcorder is to catch me sneaking in his room. He also demanded I give him the key to "his" car and he bought the file cabinet with the lock on it. So he is worried that I will find something. But I already know what is going on. He wonders how I know so much about what is going on, but it isn't from snooping. It's from him leaving out information where I have access to it. I remember whenever he would buy me a gift I would always find out what it was before he gave it to me. I never snooped. He would leave the receipt in the passenger seat of the car. He would have the gift delivered to the house while I was home. He would drop hints that were less than subtle and wonder how I caught on. Let's just say he's 5 beers short of a 6-pack.
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"
