Stop. I was going there last night. Deal with today. Breathe.

Last night, I tried to get honest about what was underneath all of the fear about the OW and our marriage not working out. I stopped obsessing when I realized how scared I've been and how some old hurts are reappearing and messing me with me now.

Stay in the NOW. Your kids are with you, you are living in the house, today, none of those bad things have happened.

Love,
Heather

P.S. I still think a new shovel would be fun. Or maybe a pick axe :-)

"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man

“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson