thank you suckerpunch. I used to read all the threads looking for someone's story that would give me hope. At the time, I only read similar stories to my own. The only ones where I found hope were the ones where there was no or short infidelity.
I hope you continue to DB. It works!
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017