Confused by WAS

[Grizz]

Thanks for the reply. I have been reading alot of your posts. Definitely some good information in there. One of my biggest problems is how to detach when she still shows affection toward me. Is the affection out of a feeling of guilt for the whole sitch or is it true affection? Who knows? She has told me that she feels bad that i am sad/upset. Who wouldn't be? I so want to detach so when the end comes it MAY be little easier. I know, she is confused, I am confused and I have know idea which direction to go. I would love to show her affection in return but I am afraid she would see that as pressuring. Also I am afraid to return the affection because that only makes it harder for me when then end finally arrives. So many questions with so few answers. I will try to find the love languages book to read.