Good point bug, and in hindsight, I definitely should have. That makes really good sense. W felt like it was a setup and was immediately on the defensive. Of course I told her I didn't want her worrying about it all day, but on the other hand, why should I care? She's driving this boat.
W had to work some, so we ended up going to dinner after and talking then. She said she had forgotten all about it, but later said she didn't think she could ever love me like I deserved, could never get back to the way it was (which I called bull on, because who wants to go backward...but whatever). She danced around the D topic and the upcoming pre-conference...never really addressed it. But she did ask if I would want her to move out.
And the feather in the cap....when I got up this morning, I found the D papers tucked between some folders on my desk. I called W and asked if we could talk today, and she's going to meet me between meetings for 30 mins. I also called the attorney I had consulted with to see what my options are at this point. Kind of a crappy turn of events, but we'll see where her head is at shortly. When she left this morning, she made a point to kiss me bye, to tell me about her bonus and our tax bill, and upcoming deals. Everything's normal....except those D papers.
