Eh, WAS/LBS ... it's semantics, I get that. But for me, it's a journey trying to figure out what is going on inside. It amazes me how much I lied to myself (I think I still do). I mean I could give 2 completely different stories on the same day. And I'm not sure I always realized that. And I really needed to finally get down to why that was. What was it that I didn't want to face? So perhaps you and I are on different paths. But I am still intrigued.
CV, people come here for varying reasons and I've seen those reasons transform through time (like you). So what's yours now do you think?
I mean you are here to:
1) Save your marriage 2) Help to end the marriage 3) Companionship with people who may understand a bit better
So what do you think it is for you? I hear what you are saying about your H, I swear. I'm not sure yet exactly how to address it unless I understand your goal.