She might someday, you never know but that's hers to fix. My H thought I would never change but I have, immensely. His patience just wore thin and I don't blame him.

I'm not suggesting you should have more patience, less patience, any patience. Only you know when you're done. But you will get further if you keep to your path and let W keep to hers.

MC stuff that she dragged me into. Does this help you or hurt you? And if she had to drag you, why? You said you got a lot out of it, have you ever thanked her for dragging you?


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss