YEA, I haven't checked phone records since gathering evidence of OW. It just makes me mad and sad. Same things with bank statements. I have online access to them, but don't check. It would just piss me off, so why torture myself.

He did finally answer the text about the trade show. It was quick and I didn't respond back.

I have to keep reminding myself, he is in full "dating" mode with OW. I was looking back over some calendar/journals that I kept when we first started dating and it all sounds so familiar. We went shopping, he brough me flowers, he would come over everyday, call me all hours, etc .. that I can't get enough of you stuff. I guess I got boring and wasn't excited to enough to hear about 3 hours of deer hunting. My guess, she'll get bored soon enough ... I'd be suprised to find out she hunts. She could, but I'd be suprised (yes, I started hunting just so I could go with H and experince something he loved ... but with a teenager that wants to do stuff, one of us has to be the parent/adult and be with the teenager). I guess thats were my lack of support comes in???


Me: 41
H: 43
M: 21 yrs
DD: 15

1st bombshell: 2002 - 6 months
2nd bombshell/moved out: 10/03/2012
OW: 10/12/2012
Signed MDA & PP: 11/20/12; but not submitting
Confirmed OW living with H: 11/21/12