KD, you don't have to check out, but I would appreciate if you'd answer some questions. First, I wasn't specific in my question about H's behavior:
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+ H states he wants to improve the M + H is going to counselling + I do not ask about his counselling + H sometimes offers information about counselling + H wants conversations limited to 15 minutes + H appears to have problems with long conversations + I understand and empathize + I like long conversations + I have not had conversations with H since + H appears to have changed <--- not THIS behavior + H compliments me + H wants to touch + H wants to do things together + H wants to have sex + I do not want touch + I do not want to do things together + I do not want sex + H stopped this new behaviour <--- This behavior + I continue to not have conversations + we both win
My question really was what new behavior did he STOP?
Also, you didn't simplify it, you twisted it. For example, he doesn't want to do MY interests with me. He only wants to do things together if they're his interests. By phrasing it the way you did, you painted him out to be a wonderful H and me a witchy W, when in reality, our M would still be very much all about him if I let it. For that, I ask you again, what is the purpose of the parsing.
