Oh and I think you are in a very good position to turn this around. Your wife still shows affection by holding your hand. What issues does she have with you? What personality quirks do you think bother her about you? Also if you haven't read the 5 love languages, do so immediately. Figure out her live language and ways to show her love but without pursing or pressuring her.
Me, H-34 now 38 W-32 now 35 T-13 now 18 years M-6 now 9 Daughter 3 years now 7 Bomb 11/27/12 - OM 1 year in house separation Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017
