In Limbo

[AJW]

@labug

Thanks for the response. Yeah I'll try to keep posting even if there isn't much to say.

My wife's complaints include me being mean, selfish and controlling. I do admit in part that I was and I certainly want to respect that even if I think I wasn't, that's how she felt regardless. My concern is that even though the emotional affair and the separation are a recent development, she's always been somewhat of a 'wayward' spouse. Eh, time will tell. I have let my emotions become codependent on her - and in some ways I think that's necessary in marriage. But I'm trying to GAL as best I can with her coming around all the time. I keep myself busy with my D and household chores, getting healthy, visiting friends and family, etc. That's all I can do, right?

Interestingly, my W said that she still wants to come to church with us. I told her that's great, but keep in mind that our friends are not gonna let her off the hook and act like nothing is wrong. The church does not gloss over things.

Be the change...indeed!