We have similar situations in that we have small children and a wife that cannot move out on her own because of finances. My wife is seeing an OM though so a little more complicated. However a lot of the principles are the same. I would recommend you click on my name, then click on the see posts. Then change pages to the very last page and read my first post and all the comments that follow. Keep posting updates and some of the veterans will be sure to chime in soon.

Hang in there!

Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017