You probably would like to have people tell you do this or do that, instead of yep you're doing well, but you are doing well in a very tough situation. Keep taking the best possible care of yourself and detach from what he is doing, and come here to read the advice that is on others' threads if you don't see much on your own. Part of the help here I think is to know how very not alone you are.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.