What can I say? I am the WORST DBer as you know... I am still angry and resentful with my H. I tell myself that I will listen, validate and STFU EVERY TIME I see him. And yet, EVERY TIME I mess up. He left because of my anger, and guess what? I am still angry at him!
So don't feel bad because you messed up once. You are human and you have been doing great. You are such an amazing person with a beautiful soul and you have helped so many of us here...
Know that we are here for you.
So get up. Dust off. Turn the page. Forgive yourself (which at least to me is the hardest part) And focus on today.
I am glad I came to the boards today so I could post to you, my dear friend.
Me & H: 44 D7, D6, S3 Together: 20y, M: 17y EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10 EA becomes PA: Spring 2011 H filed for D: 09/06/12 D Negotiating began 2/15 OW seemingly gone on 3/15 Still negotiating D
