I am glad I don't need to go all b*tch. Ofcourse after some sole searching there was things I needed to change. My biggest 2 for myself was a germ phobia and panicking while other people were driving. This has been good for me. It has reduced my anxiety working on these. I have definitely done these for me
The one thing that my H complained about to me was that I didn't so enough with him and kids should have been left at other people's place more often so we could go out. I Ofcourse said that that was easy to fix but he had already made his mind up. Already found his love of his life
