That post is clear. Definitely that trait of time limits and fear of discussion as that is my W to a tee. Always has been. That is why she avoids me and discussion with the kids when they are hurting. Literally walks away from a 10 year old.
He likes touch and sex and you like conversation. I think there is an opening for compromise there. Time the conversation and the sex. Okay, now I am being sarcastic. Really though! Give a little to get a little. MWD talks about solutions and not dragging out past problems. That is what he is afraid of talking about. Try some kiss and make-up. You may be surprised. Men are that simple.


M17 yrs.
me49
xW47
d15
d11

BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out)
Therapy 9 months (tried 2)
BD2- May/12(sep)
Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50
Sold home - Aug/13
Court #2 - Dec/13
Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again
We settled.