Your post about your H reminded me why my W is blaming and angry. It is guilt and the fact that like you, I am getting more of the support than she is from family and friends. Most think she is off her rocker and she resents that....Just like your H. Well that is something they cannot take away from us. The love and dignity we have from those close to us.
Your d's will help you. They sound beautiful and clearly have maternal instincts. They will feel a part of it all. So glad you have that love with your kids, family and friends. That is priceless.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.