SB, DB literally saved my life. It is soooo important to get your self esteem back all by yourself, and guess what, it will never leave you again because it will be all yours and come from only you. DB will do that for you.
It will teach you to stop asking questions where there are no answers and stop fighting what you can't control. And then all that energy that could be going into crying and sorrow can be going into fun new things that make you feel great. It is a choice.
It isn't a fair choice. To be fair, you should be allowed to feel trampled into the ground by the actions of your H, and left there in a mess until he comes to his senses and rescues you. If you want your power back, and more control over how you feel and where you go in life from here, pick yourself back up as many times as it takes and keep DBing.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
