Quick update. Had a really nice brunch yesterday with friends. Then when I came home, we hosted neighbors for the first time in a year. It was really nice but I didn't interact with H much. Pretty much the wives stayed upstairs with the kids and all the Hs were in the basement watching the game. After everyone left, H and I chatted and cleaned up. Then he left at his normal time of 9pm.

So I leave on a business trip next week. H will have to move home to stay with the kids for a week. After this trip, I plan to sit down and have a discussion with him. After 7 months of separation, I need more space for me. He comes home every night to have dinner with the kids.

Any advice about how to have this convo. I plan to have a session with a DB coach. I need to do this for me.

Me 38 H 39
M13 T18
S6
S9
Bomb Drop 11/11
Moved Out 7/12
Still have hope.
No OW that I know of..